Our services
Fetal anomaly
Pregnancy loss, infant loss, and reproductive trauma affect all aspects of a person’s life: medical, emotional, and social. That’s why we take a holistic approach, embracing bereaved parents with an array of practical, educational, and emotionally supportive services.
Knafayim is there for every bereaved couple, at whatever stage of the reproductive journey they experience loss.
Fetal anomaly
Continued Comfort is Knafayim’s support group for mothers facing a fetal anomaly diagnosis. See the support groups
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In-person consultation
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When an expectant couple is blindsided with the devastating diagnosis that their baby may not survive the pregnancy or birth, they’re thrown into a turmoil of confusion and terrifying medical terminology. We provide immediate in-person option counseling, referrals to top doctors and assistance in getting appointments for second opinions, and access to the highest level of medical care and rabbinic guidance, empowering them to make informed and supported decisions regarding their next steps.
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Guidance & referrals
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Once the decision to continue the pregnancy has been made, Knafayim is there for ongoing guidance, patient advocacy, referrals to the specialists and medical centers best suited to the couple’s unique situation, and family support.
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Collaborative care
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A diagnosis of fetal anomaly results in a team of medical professionals in various specialties. Our relationships and connections within the medical community allow us to create a supportive web of collaborative, cohesive, and compassionate care.
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Emotional doula services
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When the time for the birth arrives, one of our specially trained emotional doulas will be there to assist at bedside and create a supportive space for the couple to bond with their baby for as long as they can.
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Continued comfort
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When the baby lives beyond the birth, our focus is on providing palliative care for as long as the baby continues to draw breath. We support the family in any way possible, allowing them to cherish the time they have together.
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Final arrangements
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To protect the emotional experience of the bereaved parents’ last moments with their baby, we coordinate with the chevra kaddisha so the final arrangements are handled with dignity and respect for the family’s customs and rabbinic counsel.
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Care packets
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Our specially curated postpartum support packet is a collection of lactation cessation tips, products, and vitamins that offer bereaved mothers the information and practical support to help them transition through this painful process as quickly as possible.
Leaving the hospital following the baby’s demise means leaving with achingly empty arms. Our Whispers in the Night support packet gives the bereaved couple permission to grieve through a thoughtfully curated collection of information, chizuk, and inspiration that includes a comprehensive book on loss and grief. These materials offer validation and solace that can be reached for again and again, at any time of the day or night.
Both packages are available in many hospitals and medical centers or can be discreetly home-delivered by local coordinators.
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Phone support groups
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Grieving the loss of a baby one never got to take home is an extremely isolating and lonely experience. Our phone support groups are a place of comfort and healing where women can feel safe to openly share their stories and support each other through their grief, moderated by licensed mental health professionals. (In-person groups may be available depending on location.)
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Teleconference series
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Without the familiar structure of levayah, shivah, and shloshim, grief can feel ambiguous and confusing. Our live teleconferences target the unique characteristics of reproductive loss, addressing topics such as trauma, am I still a mother, and what do I tell my siblings. This twice-yearly series includes 8 weekly presentations by medical professionals and therapists trained in reproductive trauma and bereavement care, followed by question-and-answer sessions. It is a safe space for bereaved parents to share their most painful questions and get individualized answers from experts in the field.
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Messages of hope
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Shabbos and Yamim Tovim are very vulnerable times for bereaved parents. Mrs. Malkie Klaristenfeld’s weekly Erev Shabbos emails are messages of connection, chizuk, and inspiration culled from the weekly parashah. Her pre-Yom Tov calls offer divrei chizuk and practical strategies for the painful reality of entering another Yom Tov with empty arms.
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Step by Step Fetal Anomaly Program
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A fetal anomaly diagnosis can leave parents feeling overwhelmed, frightened, and unsure of what to do next. Our Step by Step Fetal Anomaly support walks families through the process with clarity, compassion, and informed guidance. From understanding medical information and exploring options to accessing referrals, advocacy, and emotional support, we help parents navigate each stage with steadiness and care.
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Hotel respite
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Sometimes a grieving couple needs a brief pause from the demands, reminders, and noise of daily life. Our hotel respite offers parents the opportunity to step away for a short time and catch their breath in a private, supportive space. It is a chance to rest, regroup, and tend to their loss together with a bit more room to breathe.
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Yartzeit
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The yartzeit can bring with it a quiet ache, reopening grief even long after the loss itself. Our Yartzeit Project helps families mark the date in a meaningful and supported way, offering remembrance, validation, and the reassurance that their baby is not forgotten. By acknowledging the significance of the day, we help create space for memory, connection, and healing.
You can learn to be whole even though a piece of your heart will always be missing.
In your own way. In your own time. At your own pace.