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A cocoon of comfort, care, and compassion.

Pregnancy loss, infant loss, and reproductive trauma affect all aspects of a person’s life: medical, emotional, and social. That’s why we take a holistic approach, embracing bereaved parents with an array of practical, educational, and emotionally supportive services.

Knafayim is there for every bereaved couple, at whatever stage of the reproductive journey they experience loss.

Miscarriage

Still a Mother logo

Still a Mother is Knafayim’s support group for mothers after a miscarriage. See the support groups

  • Guidance & referrals

    Pregnancy loss creates a storm of confusion: decisions need to be made and they have to be made quickly.

    Read more Read less about Guidance & referrals

    Pregnancy loss creates a storm of confusion: decisions need to be made and they have to be made quickly.

    Knafayim is a source of information and support for medical and emotional decisions, as well as medical referrals, fast-tracked appointments with specialists, patient advocacy, family support, and help with rabbinical consultations.

  • Care packet

    Leaving the hospital following a miscarriage means leaving with achingly empty arms.

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    Leaving the hospital following a miscarriage means leaving with achingly empty arms. Our Lingering Dreams support packet gives couples something to take home with them, something that acknowledges they deserve support for their loss. The thoughtfully curated collection of information, chizuk, and inspiration offers validation and solace that can be reached for again and again, at any time of the day or night.

  • Phone support groups

    In a community where pregnancy loss is seldom discussed, miscarriage can be an extremely isolating and lonely experience.

    Read more Read less about Phone support groups

    In a community where pregnancy loss is seldom discussed, miscarriage can be an extremely isolating and lonely experience. Our phone support groups are a place of comfort and healing where women share their stories and support each other through their grief, moderated by licensed mental health professionals.

  • Teleconference series

    Without the familiar structure of levayah, shivah, and shloshim, grief can feel ambiguous and confusing.

    Read more Read less about Teleconference series

    Without the familiar structure of levayah, shivah, and shloshim, grief can feel ambiguous and confusing. Our live teleconferences target the unique characteristics of reproductive loss, addressing topics such as trauma, am I still a mother, and what do I tell my siblings. This twice-yearly series includes 8 weekly presentations by medical professionals and therapists trained in reproductive trauma and bereavement care, followed by question-and-answer sessions. It is a safe space for bereaved parents to share their most painful questions and get individualized answers from experts in the field.

  • Messages of hope

    Shabbos and Yamim Tovim are very vulnerable times for bereaved parents.

    Read more Read less about Messages of hope

    Shabbos and Yamim Tovim are very vulnerable times for bereaved parents. Mrs. Malkie Klaristenfeld’s weekly Erev Shabbos emails are messages of connection, chizuk, and inspiration culled from the weekly parashah. Her pre-Yom Tov calls offer divrei chizuk and practical strategies for the painful reality of entering another Yom Tov with empty arms.

  • Due date

    When the due date approaches, grief often returns with an intensity that can feel startling and overwhelming.

    Read more Read less about Due date

    When the due date approaches, grief often returns with an intensity that can feel startling and overwhelming. What was meant to be a day of arrival becomes a painful reminder of absence. We offer gentle support around this tender time, helping parents prepare emotionally, feel less alone, and find ways to honor the day with compassion and care.

  • Meals

    In the immediate aftermath of loss, even the simplest daily tasks can feel impossibly heavy.

    Read more Read less about Meals

    In the immediate aftermath of loss, even the simplest daily tasks can feel impossibly heavy. Through our meal support, families receive nourishing food during the most difficult days, relieving one small burden at a time. It is a practical expression of care that allows parents the space to grieve without having to think about what comes next.

Mid-trimester loss & stillbirth

Still a Mother logo

Still a Mother is Knafayim’s support group for mothers after a mid-trimester loss or stillbirth. See the support groups

  • Guidance & referrals

    Pregnancy loss creates a storm of confusion: decisions need to be made and they have to be made quickly.

    Read more Read less about Guidance & referrals

    Pregnancy loss creates a storm of confusion: decisions need to be made and they have to be made quickly.

    Knafayim is a source of information and support for medical and emotional decisions, as well as medical referrals, fast-tracked appointments with specialists, patient advocacy, family support, and help with rabbinical consultations.

  • Emotional doula services

    When a couple knows their baby will be born still, one of our specially trained emotional doulas will support…

    Read more Read less about Emotional doula services

    When a couple knows their baby will be born still, one of our specially trained emotional doulas will support them through the birth and guide them in the process of saying hello in order to say goodbye. Their options will be clearly explained and presented so they can make informed decisions about how to spend these final moments with their baby and have a supportive space for their transition into the postpartum experience of loss.

  • Final arrangements

    To protect the emotional experience of the bereaved parents’ precious few moments with their baby…

    Read more Read less about Final arrangements

    To protect the emotional experience of the bereaved parents’ precious few moments with their baby, we coordinate with the chevra kaddisha so the final arrangements are handled with dignity and respect for the family’s customs and rabbinic counsel.

  • Care packets

    After a loss, the body knows it’s no longer pregnant but doesn’t know there’s no longer a baby to feed…

    Read more Read less about Care packets

    After a loss, the body knows it’s no longer pregnant but doesn’t know there’s no longer a baby to feed and will therefore produce milk. Our specially curated postpartum support packet is a collection of lactation cessation tips, products, and vitamins that offer bereaved mothers the information and practical support to help them transition through this painful process as quickly as possible.

    Leaving the hospital following a miscarriage means leaving with achingly empty arms. Our Whispers in the Night support packet gives the bereaved couple permission to grieve through a thoughtfully curated collection of information, chizuk, and inspiration that includes a comprehensive book on loss and grief. These materials offer validation and solace that can be reached for again and again, at any time of the day or night.

    Both packages are available in many hospitals and medical centers or can be discreetly home-delivered by local coordinators.

  • Phone support groups

    In a community where pregnancy loss is seldom discussed, having a baby born still can be an extremely isolating…

    Read more Read less about Phone support groups

    In a community where pregnancy loss is seldom discussed, having a baby born still can be an extremely isolating and lonely experience. Our phone support groups are a place of comfort and healing where women share their stories and support each other through their grief, moderated by licensed mental health professionals. In addition to the support group for general loss, we have separate groups for women who’ve experienced recurrent pregnancy loss (RPL) and for women who’ve experienced loss following infertility treatments. (In-person groups may be available depending on location.)

  • Therapeutic support

    The lived experience of grief sometimes warrants one-on-one support from a mental health professional.

    Read more Read less about Therapeutic support

    The lived experience of grief sometimes warrants one-on-one support from a mental health professional. We have cultivated a wide network of therapists trained in perinatal loss and facilitate referrals and funding (when necessary) for crisis counseling and bereavement support.

  • Teleconference series

    Without the familiar structure of levayah, shivah, and shloshim, grief can feel ambiguous and confusing.

    Read more Read less about Teleconference series

    Without the familiar structure of levayah, shivah, and shloshim, grief can feel ambiguous and confusing. Our live teleconferences target the unique characteristics of reproductive loss, addressing topics such as trauma, am I still a mother, and what do I tell my siblings. This twice-yearly series includes 8 weekly presentations by medical professionals and therapists trained in reproductive trauma and bereavement care, followed by question-and-answer sessions. It is a safe space for bereaved parents to share their most painful questions and get individualized answers from experts in the field.

  • Messages of hope

    Shabbos and Yamim Tovim are very vulnerable times for bereaved parents. Mrs. Malkie Klaristenfeld’s weekly Erev Shabbos…

    Read more Read less about Messages of hope

    Shabbos and Yamim Tovim are very vulnerable times for bereaved parents. Mrs. Malkie Klaristenfeld’s weekly Erev Shabbos emails are messages of connection, chizuk, and inspiration culled from the weekly parashah. Her pre-Yom Tov calls offer divrei chizuk and practical strategies for the painful reality of entering another Yom Tov with empty arms.

  • Due date

    When the due date approaches, grief often returns with an intensity that can feel startling and overwhelming.

    Read more Read less about Due date

    When the due date approaches, grief often returns with an intensity that can feel startling and overwhelming. What was meant to be a day of arrival becomes a painful reminder of absence. We offer gentle support around this tender time, helping parents prepare emotionally, feel less alone, and find ways to honor the day with compassion and care.

  • Meals

    In the immediate aftermath of loss, even the simplest daily tasks can feel impossibly heavy.

    Read more Read less about Meals

    In the immediate aftermath of loss, even the simplest daily tasks can feel impossibly heavy. Through our meal support, families receive nourishing food during the most difficult days, relieving one small burden at a time. It is a practical expression of care that allows parents the space to grieve without having to think about what comes next.

  • Hotel respite

    Sometimes a grieving couple needs a brief pause from the demands, reminders, and noise of daily life.

    Read more Read less about Hotel respite

    Sometimes a grieving couple needs a brief pause from the demands, reminders, and noise of daily life. Our hotel respite offers parents the opportunity to step away for a short time and catch their breath in a private, supportive space. It is a chance to rest, regroup, and tend to their loss together with a bit more room to breathe.

  • Yartzeit

    The yartzeit can bring with it a quiet ache, reopening grief even long after the loss itself.

    Read more Read less about Yartzeit

    The yartzeit can bring with it a quiet ache, reopening grief even long after the loss itself. Our Yartzeit Project helps families mark the date in a meaningful and supported way, offering remembrance, validation, and the reassurance that their baby is not forgotten. By acknowledging the significance of the day, we help create space for memory, connection, and healing.

TFMR (termination for medical reasons)

Painful Choices logo

Painful Choices is Knafayim’s support group for mothers after a termination for medical reasons. See the support groups

  • In-person consultation

    When an expectant couple is blindsided with the devastating diagnosis that their baby may not survive the pregnancy or…

    Read more Read less about In-person consultation

    When an expectant couple is blindsided with the devastating diagnosis that their baby may not survive the pregnancy or birth, they’re thrown into a turmoil of confusion and terrifying medical terminology. We provide immediate in-person option counseling, referrals to top doctors and assistance in getting appointments for second opinions, and access to the highest level of medical care and rabbinic guidance, empowering them to make informed and supported decisions regarding their next steps.

  • Guidance & referrals

    Once the painful decision to terminate the pregnancy has been made, Knafayim is there for ongoing guidance…

    Read more Read less about Guidance & referrals

    Once the painful decision to terminate the pregnancy has been made, Knafayim is there for ongoing guidance, patient advocacy, and family support throughout the difficult process, with referrals to the specialists and medical centers best suited to the couple’s unique situation.

  • Emotional doula services

    Whether it’s a scheduled D&E or an attempted natural delivery, one of our specially trained emotional…

    Read more Read less about Emotional doula services

    Whether it’s a scheduled D&E or an attempted natural delivery, one of our specially trained emotional doulas will be there to support the couple through the procedure and guide them in the process of saying hello in order to say goodbye. Their options will be clearly explained and presented so they can make informed decisions about how they want to spend these final moments with their baby and have a supportive space for their transition into the postpartum experience of loss.

  • Final arrangements

    To protect the emotional experience of the bereaved parents’ precious few moments with their baby, we coordinate…

    Read more Read less about Final arrangements

    To protect the emotional experience of the bereaved parents’ precious few moments with their baby, we coordinate with the chevra kaddisha so the final arrangements are handled with dignity and respect for the family’s customs and rabbinic counsel.

  • Care packets

    When the pregnancy ends, the body knows it’s no longer pregnant but doesn’t know there’s no longer a baby to feed…

    Read more Read less about Care packets

    When the pregnancy ends, the body knows it’s no longer pregnant but doesn’t know there’s no longer a baby to feed and will therefore produce milk. Our specially curated postpartum support packet is a collection of lactation cessation tips, products, and vitamins that offer bereaved mothers the information and practical support to help them transition through this painful process as quickly as possible.

    Leaving the hospital following the termination of a pregnancy means leaving with achingly empty arms. Our Whispers in the Night support packet gives the bereaved couple permission to grieve through a thoughtfully curated collection of information, chizuk, and inspiration that includes a comprehensive book on loss and grief. These materials offer validation and solace that can be reached for again and again, at any time of the day or night.

    Both packages are available in many hospitals and medical centers or can be discreetly home-delivered by local coordinators.

  • Therapeutic support

    The lived experience of grief sometimes warrants one-on-one support from a mental health professional.

    Read more Read less about Therapeutic support

    The lived experience of grief sometimes warrants one-on-one support from a mental health professional. We have cultivated a wide network of therapists trained in perinatal loss and facilitate referrals and funding (when necessary) for crisis counseling and bereavement support.

  • Phone support groups

    In a community where the decision to terminate for medical reasons is never discussed, holding this loss…

    Read more Read less about Phone support groups

    In a community where the decision to terminate for medical reasons is never discussed, holding this loss can be an extremely isolating and lonely experience. Our phone support groups are a place of comfort and healing where women can feel safe to openly share their stories and support each other through their grief, moderated by licensed mental health professionals. (In-person groups may be available depending on location.)

  • Teleconference series

    Without the familiar structure of levayah, shivah, and shloshim, grief can feel ambiguous and confusing.

    Read more Read less about Teleconference series

    Without the familiar structure of levayah, shivah, and shloshim, grief can feel ambiguous and confusing. Our live teleconferences target the unique characteristics of reproductive loss, addressing topics such as trauma, am I still a mother, and what do I tell my siblings. This twice-yearly series includes 8 weekly presentations by medical professionals and therapists trained in reproductive trauma and bereavement care, followed by question-and-answer sessions. It is a safe space for bereaved parents to share their most painful questions and get individualized answers from experts in the field.

  • Messages of hope

    Shabbos and Yamim Tovim are very vulnerable times for bereaved parents. Mrs. Malkie Klaristenfeld’s weekly Erev Shabbos…

    Read more Read less about Messages of hope

    Shabbos and Yamim Tovim are very vulnerable times for bereaved parents. Mrs. Malkie Klaristenfeld’s weekly Erev Shabbos emails are messages of connection, chizuk, and inspiration culled from the weekly parashah. Her pre-Yom Tov calls offer divrei chizuk and practical strategies for the painful reality of entering another Yom Tov with empty arms.

  • Collaborative care

    A diagnosis of fetal anomaly results in a team of medical professionals in various specialties. Our relationships…

    Read more Read less about Collaborative care

    A diagnosis of fetal anomaly results in a team of medical professionals in various specialties. Our relationships and connections within the medical community allow us to create a supportive web of collaborative, cohesive, and compassionate care.

  • Yartzeit

    The yartzeit can bring with it a quiet ache, reopening grief even long after the loss itself.

    Read more Read less about Yartzeit

    The yartzeit can bring with it a quiet ache, reopening grief even long after the loss itself. Our Yartzeit Project helps families mark the date in a meaningful and supported way, offering remembrance, validation, and the reassurance that their baby is not forgotten. By acknowledging the significance of the day, we help create space for memory, connection, and healing.

  • Hotel respite

    Sometimes a grieving couple needs a brief pause from the demands, reminders, and noise of daily life.

    Read more Read less about Hotel respite

    Sometimes a grieving couple needs a brief pause from the demands, reminders, and noise of daily life. Our hotel respite offers parents the opportunity to step away for a short time and catch their breath in a private, supportive space. It is a chance to rest, regroup, and tend to their loss together with a bit more room to breathe.

Fetal anomaly

Continued Comfort logo

Continued Comfort is Knafayim’s support group for mothers facing a fetal anomaly diagnosis. See the support groups

  • In-person consultation

    When an expectant couple is blindsided with the devastating diagnosis that their baby may not survive the pregnancy…

    Read more Read less about In-person consultation

    When an expectant couple is blindsided with the devastating diagnosis that their baby may not survive the pregnancy or birth, they’re thrown into a turmoil of confusion and terrifying medical terminology. We provide immediate in-person option counseling, referrals to top doctors and assistance in getting appointments for second opinions, and access to the highest level of medical care and rabbinic guidance, empowering them to make informed and supported decisions regarding their next steps.

  • Guidance & referrals

    Once the decision to continue the pregnancy has been made, Knafayim is there for ongoing guidance…

    Read more Read less about Guidance & referrals

    Once the decision to continue the pregnancy has been made, Knafayim is there for ongoing guidance, patient advocacy, referrals to the specialists and medical centers best suited to the couple’s unique situation, and family support.

  • Collaborative care

    A diagnosis of fetal anomaly results in a team of medical professionals in various specialties. Our relationships…

    Read more Read less about Collaborative care

    A diagnosis of fetal anomaly results in a team of medical professionals in various specialties. Our relationships and connections within the medical community allow us to create a supportive web of collaborative, cohesive, and compassionate care.

  • Emotional doula services

    When the time for the birth arrives, one of our specially trained emotional doulas will be there to assist at bedside…

    Read more Read less about Emotional doula services

    When the time for the birth arrives, one of our specially trained emotional doulas will be there to assist at bedside and create a supportive space for the couple to bond with their baby for as long as they can.

  • Continued comfort

    When the baby lives beyond the birth, our focus is on providing palliative care for as long as the baby continues…

    Read more Read less about Continued comfort

    When the baby lives beyond the birth, our focus is on providing palliative care for as long as the baby continues to draw breath. We support the family in any way possible, allowing them to cherish the time they have together.

  • Final arrangements

    To protect the emotional experience of the bereaved parents’ last moments with their baby, we coordinate…

    Read more Read less about Final arrangements

    To protect the emotional experience of the bereaved parents’ last moments with their baby, we coordinate with the chevra kaddisha so the final arrangements are handled with dignity and respect for the family’s customs and rabbinic counsel.

  • Care packets

    Our specially curated postpartum support packet is a collection of lactation cessation tips, products…

    Read more Read less about Care packets

    Our specially curated postpartum support packet is a collection of lactation cessation tips, products, and vitamins that offer bereaved mothers the information and practical support to help them transition through this painful process as quickly as possible.

    Leaving the hospital following the baby’s demise means leaving with achingly empty arms. Our Whispers in the Night support packet gives the bereaved couple permission to grieve through a thoughtfully curated collection of information, chizuk, and inspiration that includes a comprehensive book on loss and grief. These materials offer validation and solace that can be reached for again and again, at any time of the day or night.

    Both packages are available in many hospitals and medical centers or can be discreetly home-delivered by local coordinators.

  • Phone support groups

    Grieving the loss of a baby one never got to take home is an extremely isolating and lonely experience. Our phone…

    Read more Read less about Phone support groups

    Grieving the loss of a baby one never got to take home is an extremely isolating and lonely experience. Our phone support groups are a place of comfort and healing where women can feel safe to openly share their stories and support each other through their grief, moderated by licensed mental health professionals. (In-person groups may be available depending on location.)

  • Teleconference series

    Without the familiar structure of levayah, shivah, and shloshim, grief can feel ambiguous and confusing.

    Read more Read less about Teleconference series

    Without the familiar structure of levayah, shivah, and shloshim, grief can feel ambiguous and confusing. Our live teleconferences target the unique characteristics of reproductive loss, addressing topics such as trauma, am I still a mother, and what do I tell my siblings. This twice-yearly series includes 8 weekly presentations by medical professionals and therapists trained in reproductive trauma and bereavement care, followed by question-and-answer sessions. It is a safe space for bereaved parents to share their most painful questions and get individualized answers from experts in the field.

  • Messages of hope

    Shabbos and Yamim Tovim are very vulnerable times for bereaved parents. Mrs. Malkie Klaristenfeld’s weekly Erev Shabbos…

    Read more Read less about Messages of hope

    Shabbos and Yamim Tovim are very vulnerable times for bereaved parents. Mrs. Malkie Klaristenfeld’s weekly Erev Shabbos emails are messages of connection, chizuk, and inspiration culled from the weekly parashah. Her pre-Yom Tov calls offer divrei chizuk and practical strategies for the painful reality of entering another Yom Tov with empty arms.

  • Step by Step Fetal Anomaly Program

    A fetal anomaly diagnosis can leave parents feeling overwhelmed, frightened, and unsure of what to do next.

    Read more Read less about Step by Step Fetal Anomaly Program

    A fetal anomaly diagnosis can leave parents feeling overwhelmed, frightened, and unsure of what to do next. Our Step by Step Fetal Anomaly support walks families through the process with clarity, compassion, and informed guidance. From understanding medical information and exploring options to accessing referrals, advocacy, and emotional support, we help parents navigate each stage with steadiness and care.

  • Hotel respite

    Sometimes a grieving couple needs a brief pause from the demands, reminders, and noise of daily life.

    Read more Read less about Hotel respite

    Sometimes a grieving couple needs a brief pause from the demands, reminders, and noise of daily life. Our hotel respite offers parents the opportunity to step away for a short time and catch their breath in a private, supportive space. It is a chance to rest, regroup, and tend to their loss together with a bit more room to breathe.

  • Yartzeit

    The yartzeit can bring with it a quiet ache, reopening grief even long after the loss itself.

    Read more Read less about Yartzeit

    The yartzeit can bring with it a quiet ache, reopening grief even long after the loss itself. Our Yartzeit Project helps families mark the date in a meaningful and supported way, offering remembrance, validation, and the reassurance that their baby is not forgotten. By acknowledging the significance of the day, we help create space for memory, connection, and healing.

Infant loss

Heartbeats logo

Heartbeats is Knafayim’s support group for mothers after the loss of a baby. See the support groups

  • Guidance & referrals

    Infant loss creates a storm of confusion: decisions need to be made and they have to be made quickly.

    Read more Read less about Guidance & referrals

    Infant loss creates a storm of confusion: decisions need to be made and they have to be made quickly.

    Knafayim is a source of information and support for medical and emotional decisions, as well as medical referrals, fast-tracked appointments with specialists, patient advocacy, family support, and help with rabbinical consultations.

  • Emotional doula services

    When a couple knows their baby will be born still, one of our specially trained emotional doulas will support…

    Read more Read less about Emotional doula services

    When a couple knows their baby will be born still, one of our specially trained emotional doulas will support them through the birth and guide them in the process of saying hello in order to say goodbye. Their options will be clearly explained and presented so they can make informed decisions about how to spend these final moments with their baby and have a supportive space for their transition into the postpartum experience of loss.

  • Final arrangements

    To protect the emotional experience of the bereaved parents’ precious few moments with their baby…

    Read more Read less about Final arrangements

    To protect the emotional experience of the bereaved parents’ precious few moments with their baby, we coordinate with the chevra kaddisha so the final arrangements are handled with dignity and respect for the family’s customs and rabbinic counsel.

  • Care packets

    After a loss, the body knows it’s no longer pregnant but doesn’t know there’s no longer a baby to feed…

    Read more Read less about Care packets

    After a loss, the body knows it’s no longer pregnant but doesn’t know there’s no longer a baby to feed and will therefore produce milk. Our specially curated postpartum support packet is a collection of lactation cessation tips, products, and vitamins that offer bereaved mothers the information and practical support to help them transition through this painful process as quickly as possible.

    Leaving the hospital following a miscarriage means leaving with achingly empty arms. Our Whispers in the Night support packet gives the bereaved couple permission to grieve through a thoughtfully curated collection of information, chizuk, and inspiration that includes a comprehensive book on loss and grief. These materials offer validation and solace that can be reached for again and again, at any time of the day or night.

    Both packages are available in many hospitals and medical centers or can be discreetly home-delivered by local coordinators.

  • Phone support groups

    In a community where pregnancy loss is seldom discussed, having a baby born still can be an extremely isolating…

    Read more Read less about Phone support groups

    In a community where pregnancy loss is seldom discussed, having a baby born still can be an extremely isolating and lonely experience. Our phone support groups are a place of comfort and healing where women share their stories and support each other through their grief, moderated by licensed mental health professionals. In addition to the support group for general loss, we have separate groups for women who’ve experienced recurrent pregnancy loss (RPL) and for women who’ve experienced loss following infertility treatments. (In-person groups may be available depending on location.)

  • Therapeutic support

    The lived experience of grief sometimes warrants one-on-one support from a mental health professional.

    Read more Read less about Therapeutic support

    The lived experience of grief sometimes warrants one-on-one support from a mental health professional. We have cultivated a wide network of therapists trained in perinatal loss and facilitate referrals and funding (when necessary) for crisis counseling and bereavement support.

  • Teleconference series

    Without the familiar structure of levayah, shivah, and shloshim, grief can feel ambiguous and confusing.

    Read more Read less about Teleconference series

    Without the familiar structure of levayah, shivah, and shloshim, grief can feel ambiguous and confusing. Our live teleconferences target the unique characteristics of reproductive loss, addressing topics such as trauma, am I still a mother, and what do I tell my siblings. This twice-yearly series includes 8 weekly presentations by medical professionals and therapists trained in reproductive trauma and bereavement care, followed by question-and-answer sessions. It is a safe space for bereaved parents to share their most painful questions and get individualized answers from experts in the field.

  • Messages of hope

    Shabbos and Yamim Tovim are very vulnerable times for bereaved parents. Mrs. Malkie Klaristenfeld’s weekly Erev Shabbos…

    Read more Read less about Messages of hope

    Shabbos and Yamim Tovim are very vulnerable times for bereaved parents. Mrs. Malkie Klaristenfeld’s weekly Erev Shabbos emails are messages of connection, chizuk, and inspiration culled from the weekly parashah. Her pre-Yom Tov calls offer divrei chizuk and practical strategies for the painful reality of entering another Yom Tov with empty arms.

  • Hotel respite

    Sometimes a grieving couple needs a brief pause from the demands, reminders, and noise of daily life.

    Read more Read less about Hotel respite

    Sometimes a grieving couple needs a brief pause from the demands, reminders, and noise of daily life. Our hotel respite offers parents the opportunity to step away for a short time and catch their breath in a private, supportive space. It is a chance to rest, regroup, and tend to their loss together with a bit more room to breathe.

  • Yartzeit

    The yartzeit can bring with it a quiet ache, reopening grief even long after the loss itself.

    Read more Read less about Yartzeit

    The yartzeit can bring with it a quiet ache, reopening grief even long after the loss itself. Our Yartzeit Project helps families mark the date in a meaningful and supported way, offering remembrance, validation, and the reassurance that their baby is not forgotten. By acknowledging the significance of the day, we help create space for memory, connection, and healing.

Hysterectomy

Pathways logo

Pathways is Knafayim’s support group for women after a hysterectomy. See the support groups

  • Guidance & referrals

    Hysterectomy and loss of fertility creates a storm of emotion and confusion. Knafayim is a source…

    Read more Read less about Guidance & referrals

    Hysterectomy and loss of fertility creates a storm of emotion and confusion. Knafayim is a source of information and support for medical decisions, as well as medical referrals, fast-tracked appointments with specialists, patient advocacy, family support, and help with rabbinical consultations.

  • In-hospital support

    The immediate aftermath of a hysterectomy is a time of extremely painful loneliness and loss. Knafayim is…

    Read more Read less about In-hospital support

    The immediate aftermath of a hysterectomy is a time of extremely painful loneliness and loss. Knafayim is there to hold a woman’s hand as she mourns the loss of her future babies and to let her know that she is not alone. Other women have walked this path as well and when she’s ready, there’s a sisterhood of support waiting for her.

  • Phone support groups

    Hysterectomy is an extremely isolating and lonely experience. Our phone support groups are a place…

    Read more Read less about Phone support groups

    Hysterectomy is an extremely isolating and lonely experience. Our phone support groups are a place of comfort and healing where women can feel safe to openly share their stories and support each other through their grief, moderated by licensed mental health professionals. (In-person groups may be available depending on location.)

  • Therapeutic support

    The lived experience of grief sometimes warrants one-on-one support from a mental health professional.

    Read more Read less about Therapeutic support

    The lived experience of grief sometimes warrants one-on-one support from a mental health professional. We have cultivated a wide network of therapists trained in perinatal loss and facilitate referrals and funding (when necessary) for crisis counseling and bereavement support.

  • In-person events & retreats

    The extreme secrecy most women maintain around their hysterectomy can lead to feelings of deep shame…

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    The extreme secrecy most women maintain around their hysterectomy can lead to feelings of deep shame, embarrassment, fear of judgment, and loss of one’s sense of femininity. Several times a year, we arrange exclusive in-person get-togethers for powerful post-hysterectomy support, inspiration, and comfort within a community of sisters.

  • Teleconference series

    Without the familiar structure of levayah, shivah, and shloshim, grief can feel ambiguous and confusing.

    Read more Read less about Teleconference series

    Without the familiar structure of levayah, shivah, and shloshim, grief can feel ambiguous and confusing. Our live teleconferences target the unique characteristics of reproductive loss, addressing topics such as trauma, am I still a mother, and what do I tell my siblings. This twice-yearly series includes 8 weekly presentations by medical professionals and therapists trained in reproductive trauma and bereavement care, followed by question-and-answer sessions. It is a safe space for bereaved parents to share their most painful questions and get individualized answers from experts in the field.

  • Messages of hope

    Shabbos and Yamim Tovim are very vulnerable times for bereaved parents. Mrs. Malkie Klaristenfeld’s weekly Erev Shabbos…

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    Shabbos and Yamim Tovim are very vulnerable times for bereaved parents. Mrs. Malkie Klaristenfeld’s weekly Erev Shabbos emails are messages of connection, chizuk, and inspiration culled from the weekly parashah. Her pre-Yom Tov calls offer divrei chizuk and practical strategies for the painful reality of entering another Yom Tov with empty arms.

  • Hotel respite

    Sometimes a grieving couple needs a brief pause from the demands, reminders, and noise of daily life.

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    Sometimes a grieving couple needs a brief pause from the demands, reminders, and noise of daily life. Our hotel respite offers parents the opportunity to step away for a short time and catch their breath in a private, supportive space. It is a chance to rest, regroup, and tend to their loss together with a bit more room to breathe.

Pregnancy after loss

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New Chapter is Knafayim’s support group for mothers expecting again after a loss. See the support groups

  • Guidance & referrals

    Pregnancy after a previous experience of loss can be physically and emotionally challenging.

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    Pregnancy after a previous experience of loss can be physically and emotionally challenging. Knafayim is a source of information and support for medical and emotional decisions, as well as medical referrals, fast-tracked appointments with specialists, patient advocacy, family support, and help with rabbinical consultations.

  • Phone support groups

    In a community where pregnancy loss is seldom discussed, the mix of emotions during subsequent…

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    In a community where pregnancy loss is seldom discussed, the mix of emotions during subsequent pregnancies can be an extremely isolating and lonely experience. Our phone support groups are a place of comfort and healing where women share their stories and support each other, moderated by licensed mental health professionals. (In-person groups may be available depending on location.)

  • Therapeutic support

    The lived experience of grief sometimes warrants one-on-one support from a mental health professional.

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    The lived experience of grief sometimes warrants one-on-one support from a mental health professional. We have cultivated a wide network of therapists trained in perinatal loss and facilitate referrals and funding (when necessary) for crisis counseling and bereavement support.

  • Messages of hope

    Shabbos and Yamim Tovim are very vulnerable times for bereaved parents. Mrs. Malkie Klaristenfeld’s weekly Erev Shabbos…

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    Shabbos and Yamim Tovim are very vulnerable times for bereaved parents. Mrs. Malkie Klaristenfeld’s weekly Erev Shabbos emails are messages of connection, chizuk, and inspiration culled from the weekly parashah. Her pre-Yom Tov calls offer divrei chizuk and practical strategies for the painful reality of entering another Yom Tov with empty arms.

  • Teleconference series

    Without the familiar structure of levayah, shivah, and shloshim, grief can feel ambiguous and confusing.

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    Without the familiar structure of levayah, shivah, and shloshim, grief can feel ambiguous and confusing. Our live teleconferences target the unique characteristics of reproductive loss, addressing topics such as trauma, am I still a mother, and what do I tell my siblings. This twice-yearly series includes 8 weekly presentations by medical professionals and therapists trained in reproductive trauma and bereavement care, followed by question-and-answer sessions. It is a safe space for bereaved parents to share their most painful questions and get individualized answers from experts in the field.

Men’s support

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Silent Strength is Knafayim’s support group for fathers after a loss. See the support groups

  • Guidance & referrals

    Perinatal and reproductive loss creates a storm of confusion: decisions need to be made and they…

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    Perinatal and reproductive loss creates a storm of confusion: decisions need to be made and they have to be made quickly. Often, the bereaved father will feel the weight of responsibility for these decisions more heavily.

    Knafayim is a source of information and support for medical and emotional decisions, as well as medical referrals, fast-tracked appointments with specialists, patient advocacy, family support, and help with rabbinical consultations. We offer guidance as to how the bereaved father can best support his wife, and discuss the different ways men and women process grief.

  • Therapeutic support

    The lived experience of grief sometimes warrants one-on-one support from a mental health professional.

    Read more Read less about Therapeutic support

    The lived experience of grief sometimes warrants one-on-one support from a mental health professional. We have cultivated a wide network of therapists trained in perinatal loss and facilitate referrals and funding (when necessary) for crisis counseling and bereavement support.

  • Phone support groups

    The bereaved father’s experience of grief is seldom acknowledged, and it can be an extremely isolating…

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    The bereaved father’s experience of grief is seldom acknowledged, and it can be an extremely isolating and lonely experience. Our phone support groups are a place of comfort and healing where men can explore the unique ways men respond to and process their grief, moderated by licensed mental health professionals.

  • Teleconference series

    Without the familiar structure of levayah, shivah, and shloshim, grief can feel ambiguous and confusing.

    Read more Read less about Teleconference series

    Without the familiar structure of levayah, shivah, and shloshim, grief can feel ambiguous and confusing. Our live teleconferences target the unique characteristics of reproductive loss, addressing topics such as trauma, am I still a mother, and what do I tell my siblings. This twice-yearly series includes 8 weekly presentations by medical professionals and therapists trained in reproductive trauma and bereavement care, followed by question-and-answer sessions. It is a safe space for bereaved parents to share their most painful questions and get individualized answers from experts in the field.

  • Messages of hope

    Shabbos and Yamim Tovim are very vulnerable times for bereaved parents. Mrs. Malkie Klaristenfeld’s weekly Erev Shabbos…

    Read more Read less about Messages of hope

    Shabbos and Yamim Tovim are very vulnerable times for bereaved parents. Mrs. Malkie Klaristenfeld’s weekly Erev Shabbos emails are messages of connection, chizuk, and inspiration culled from the weekly parashah. Her pre-Yom Tov calls offer divrei chizuk and practical strategies for the painful reality of entering another Yom Tov with empty arms.

You can learn to be whole even though a piece of your heart will always be missing.

In your own way. In your own time. At your own pace.